Does coloring one’s hair impact affection in a relationship?

DEAR ABBY: A woman, referred to as “Silver Girl in New York,” expressed feeling unloved by her husband because she decided to embrace her natural hair color. Abby advised her to wear a red wig, but a reader named Terri from Iowa disagreed, emphasizing that it’s the woman’s decision and her husband should accept it.

Another reader, Natural Redhead from California, shared a different perspective, suggesting that the woman should consider coloring her hair for her husband’s happiness. On the other hand, Goldie from Nevada questioned the woman’s priorities in valuing her husband’s opinion over her colleagues’.

Ecstatic Wife from Michigan highlighted the importance of maintaining desire in a relationship, while Carole from Washington emphasized the significance of aging gracefully and prioritizing personal autonomy. Lastly, Smiling from Maine shared a lighthearted perspective on embracing gray hair as “wisdom highlights.”

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at http://www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.